I had something happen to me today that is really causing me to reflect on how lucky I am to have met wonderful people throughout my life. This is going to be an uncharacteristically cathartic post for me.
A phase of a relationship that was very important to me has ended but regardless of whether it continues in a platonic capacity or fades away I am better for having experienced it. Everyone has a story and if you are open-minded enough you can learn something from pretty much anyone. I confess that I am not always as open-minded that way as I would like to be but I, like most people, try.
I met someone that had a lot to teach me and although bullet points don’t do it justice, a long and rambling overview that no one will read wouldn’t cut it either. She taught and reminded me how to:
- Be an incredible parent despite facing adversity that most of us will never have to deal with
- Be kind
- Listen with an open mind
- Be there when the other needs to talk and to be astute enough to realize when input is necessary or when listening is what’s needed
- Be funny and smart and well-informed
- Realize the importance of friends and family
- How being a douche bag can actually be a positive characteristic.
We’ve all met people like this and some of us have probably taken it for granted. Don’t. And if things take an unexpected turn be enough of an adult to focus on all the good that you derived from the relationship and use it to help you move forward. I will.
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